Remembering the Life of President Russell M. Nelson
Family and leaders remember him as a “beloved physician”
He was not on the list.
With sorrow we announce that Russell M. Nelson, beloved
President of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, passed away
peacefully shortly after 10 p.m. MDT today at his home in Salt Lake City. He
was 101 — the oldest president in the history of the Church.
President Nelson was called as an Apostle on April 7, 1984.
He became the leader of the Church on January 14, 2018. His time as prophet
will forever be remembered as one of global ministry (he visited 32 countries
and U.S. territories), increased temple construction (he announced 200 new
temples) and profound change. Beginning in the April 2018 general conference in
which he was sustained as the senior Apostle, President Nelson began
introducing frequent adjustments designed to help the Saints minister more like
Jesus Christ and better emphasize the centrality of the Savior of the world in
all the Church does. Later sections of this obituary provide a detailed
accounting of his travels as president and the many changes he implemented.
Prior to full-time Church service, President Nelson was a
heart surgeon revered and respected the world over. He performed the first
open-heart surgery in Utah in 1955. He served as president of the Society for
Vascular Surgery, a director of the American Board of Thoracic Surgery,
chairman of the Council on Cardiovascular Surgery for the American Heart
Association and president of the Utah State Medical Association. He authored
numerous chapters in medical textbooks and other publications. He lectured at and
visited professionally many organizations throughout the United States and
other nations. And he was conversant in 11 languages.
“All of us who have worked with Russell M. Nelson, and the
many he has taught and associated with, have marveled at his extraordinary
modesty for a man of his great accomplishments,” said President Dallin H. Oaks,
who was called to serve in the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles on the same day as
President Nelson in 1984 and who served as President Nelson’s First Counselor
in the First Presidency. “And [we] have marveled at his gentleness. He is just
the gentlest and sweetest person you could ever hope to associate with. And he
will always be remembered that way.”
President Nelson is survived by his wife, Wendy, eight of
his 10 children, 57 grandchildren, and more than 167 great-grandchildren.
As with the Apostles in New Testament times, Latter-day
Saint Apostles are called to be special witnesses of Jesus Christ. President
Nelson was one of 15 men who help oversee the growth and development of the
global Church, which now numbers more than 17 million members.
A successor is not expected to be formally chosen by the
Church’s Quorum of the Twelve Apostles until after President Nelson’s funeral
(details pending).
One might not expect an Apostle to be a world-renowned heart
surgeon, as was the case with President Nelson before his call to lifelong
service in the Church. But healing hearts physically and spiritually is not
uncommon for disciples of Jesus Christ in any age. The New Testament writer
Luke was a physician of some repute — indeed, the Apostle Paul, with whom he
traveled as a missionary, called him “the beloved physician” (Colossians 4:14).
As a physician, President Nelson was perhaps best known for
his part in the development of an artificial heart and lung machine small
enough to function in an operating room. Made possible by invaluable support
and encouragement from his first wife, Dantzel, it was an achievement that
heightened his appreciation for the gift of life. “I think a surgeon is in a
unique position to understand one of God’s greatest creations — the human
body,” he said. “Every segment of the body motivates me to faith.”
President Nelson’s reverence for life instilled in him a
spiritual approach to medicine. His lodestar scripture in the Doctrine and
Covenants guided his actions both in and out of the operating room: “And when
we obtain any blessing from God, it is by obedience to that law upon which it
is predicated” (Doctrine and Covenants 130:21).
“In other words,” President Nelson said, “you don’t wish for
a blessing; you work for a blessing and you make it possible. I often taught my
team with whom I was working: This patient has been praying for success, and
he’s got a family praying for success. All of those prayers won’t do a bit of
good if you make a single mistake, so you’ve got to do your job perfectly in
order for this patient to have a possibility of having the blessing they seek.”
His medical school days stretched to the first 12 years of
his marriage. His graduation from the University of Utah’s medical school at
age 22 was followed by an internship and several more years of residency in
Minnesota and Massachusetts; two years of military duty in Washington, D.C.,
and abroad; and a Ph.D. from the University of Minnesota. His consuming
interest in research eventually led to his groundbreaking work on the
heart-lung machine. He later served as a research professor of surgery and director
of the Thoracic Surgery Residency at the University of Utah and chairman of the
Division of Thoracic Surgery at LDS Hospital in Salt Lake City.
In 1955 President Nelson performed the first open-heart
surgery in Utah, and he completed more than 7,000 operations throughout his
career. One of his most noteworthy operations came in 1972, when President
Nelson’s love of medicine and faith came full circle when he was asked to
perform high-risk surgery on Spencer W. Kimball, who was at the time a senior
Apostle of the Church. President Nelson was serving as the Church’s General
Sunday School President while continuing his work as a heart surgeon. He was given
a priesthood blessing before the operation that he believed affected the
outcome.
“It was just like a musician who played a piano concerto
without ever making a mistake or a baseball pitcher pitching nine innings of
errorless ball,” he said. “That long and complicated operation was done without
a single flaw. And at the end of the operation when his heart leaped with
power, I knew that he would live. And as we were closing his chest, I had the
feeling that this man would live to become the President of the Church.”
Spencer W. Kimball indeed became President of the Church and
lived another 13 years.
“[President Nelson] had great insights from his medical
training into the health issues that arise with General Authorities,” President
Oaks said. “And he gave us remarkable insights into what that kind of diagnosis
meant and what the outlook was, and the practical implications of that
particular diagnosis.”
Life with Dantzel
President Nelson always sought to do his best at whatever
task was before him. As a young child, it was the performing arts, not the
healing arts, that first captured his attention. He sang tenor in a
prizewinning quartet and played the lead in a musical as a freshman at the
University of Utah. In fact, his love of music eventually led him to the love
of his life.
He remembers arriving for a rehearsal for an upcoming play
and hearing a soprano on the stage. “She was stunning,” President Nelson
recalled. “Her voice was incredible, and I said, ‘Who is that?’ The musical
director replied, ‘That’s Dantzel White. She’s the one you’ll be singing with
in this show.’” President Nelson said, “We never made another date with anyone
else from that point forward.”
Music became a centerpiece of their lives together. The
Nelsons never went without music in their home after purchasing a used piano
for less than $100 early in their marriage. During his days as a physician,
President Nelson would get up early in the morning to play the piano and study
the scriptures. Combining them, he said, brought a spiritual influence into
their home.
Like many young married couples, the Nelsons worked together
to make ends meet, and it wasn’t always easy. President Nelson recalled walking
down the streets of Boston one night with his wife, having four children at the
time, when she pressed her nose against the windowpane of a furniture store and
asked, “Sweetheart, do you think someday we will ever be able to afford a
lamp?” It was during these times, President Nelson said, that they remembered
the scripture in Matthew 6:33, which reads, “Seek ye first the kingdom of God,
and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.”
“I thought they were a really good team,” recalled Gloria
Nelson Irion, the third of the 10 Nelson children, which included nine girls
and one boy. “They took good care of each other and were really secure in their
love for each other. When my dad would come home from work, or come into the
home, his first thing he would do was go seek out my mother and greet her with
a hug and a kiss. … He showed us that the best thing a man can do for his
children is to love their mother.”
Dantzel was the heart of the Nelson home. President Nelson
said, “She has given me companionship, 10 beautiful children and all those
wonderful intangible things a wife gives to a husband to help him strive for
fulfillment and selflessness.”
From oldest to youngest, the Nelson children are (with names
of spouses in parentheses) Marsha N. Workman (Richard Workman), Wendy N.
Maxfield (died in 2019, married to Norman A. Maxfield), Gloria N. Irion
(Richard A. Irion), Brenda N. Miles (Richard L. Miles), Sylvia N. Webster
(David R. Webster), Emily N. Wittwer (died in 1995, married to Bradley E.
Wittwer), Laurie N. Marsh (Richard M. Marsh), Rosalie N. Ringwood (Michael T.
Ringwood), Marjorie N. Lowder (Bradley J. Lowder) and Russell M. Nelson Jr. (Britney).
For his part, President Nelson spent time with his children
in the midst of a busy medical and Church schedule. He traveled extensively and
often took one family member with him at a time. He viewed these times with his
children as a wise investment. “Those trips gave me a chance to listen to their
problems and their ambitions and for us simply to talk to one another and share
ideas and experiences with each other,” he said. Activities such as scripture
reading, family prayers twice a day and weekly family home evenings also helped
keep the family close.
“As the family grew, he made it a point to come to every,
every important milestone. He came to every child’s blessing, baptism,
priesthood ordination, missionary farewell [and] wedding,” said Irion.
Marrying Wendy L. Watson
President Nelson fervently believed the secret to a happy
life is not what you have but the knowledge you possess of God. People “have to
know that God lives. They have to know that He has a plan for them. If they
will follow that plan, they will find joy, even though life’s hardships bring
grief, challenge, sometimes pain, sadness,” he said. “If they can have that
faith in Him and link themselves to Him, they’ll have strength to withstand the
trials that life will bring. In the process they will find great joy.”
His spiritual mettle was tested when his beloved Dantzel
passed away unexpectedly in February 2005. If anything, her death strengthened
his faith and commitment to family.
At the April 2006 general conference, President Nelson
talked about the need to strengthen marriages.
“Marriage brings greater possibilities for happiness than
does any other human relationship,” he said. “Yet some married couples fall
short of their full potential. They let their romance become rusty, take each
other for granted, allow other interests or clouds of neglect to obscure the
vision of what their marriage really could be. Marriages would be happier if
nurtured more carefully.”
Shortly after the conference, President Nelson married Wendy
L. Watson. Prior to the marriage, the Canadian-born Sister Nelson had been a
professor of marriage and family therapy for 25 years — the last 13 at Brigham
Young University.
Sister Nelson has spoken of the spiritual wrestle of fasting
and prayer she experienced before choosing to develop a relationship with
then-Elder Nelson. She said entering a large family and uprooting herself from
her career, among other things, proved to be tremendous challenges.
“We think, ‘Oh, it’s the Lord’s will. That means everything
is going to be just easy and wonderful and marvelous.’ And instead, it was
tough,” Sister Nelson said during a ministry trip to the Pacific with the
prophet in May 2019. “We had different expectations. He was still grieving
Dantzel, without a doubt. … It was a huge change.”
“We just love her,” Irion said. “She has been such a
blessing to my father and also to our family for taking care of him.”
“His children were fabulous, I must say,” Sister Nelson
added. “I wanted to be their friend, and they were certainly mine. They
couldn’t have been more welcoming. The grandchildren are splendid. And now the
great-[grandchildren] are just amazing.”
During a ministry visit to Australia in 2019, President
Nelson described Wendy this way: “She’s a doctor. She’s a gerontologist. She’s
a marriage and family therapist. And she’s a really fun girl to be with.”
A Polyglot Prophet to the Nations
During ministry visits to several Latin American countries
in the fall of 2019, the prophet gave significant portions of his sermons in
Spanish, much to the delight of the local Latter-day Saints. In Peru, for
example, he delivered introductory remarks in English. Then he transitioned,
saying, “With your permission, I would like to address you in Spanish.” The
entire coliseum erupted in applause.
“I was once with him, and he broke into Russian as part of a
communication with a Russian-speaking person,” President Oaks said. “I know
that he learned enough Chinese to participate in an open-heart surgery
operation in China, giving instructions in Chinese, in the operating room.”
In fact, his daughter said her father was conversant in 11
languages.
“I think he loved meeting people from all around the world,”
Irion said. “He loved to see them embrace the gospel, become Saints and see the
change in them from sadness to hope and from darkness to light.”
He was also instrumental in getting the Church recognized in
many communist countries. “He was an eyewitness to the miracles that happened
there,” his daughter said. “He did the best he could, and then the Lord took it
the rest of the way. Door after door opened that he never thought would.”
After becoming the leader of The Church of Jesus Christ of
Latter-day Saints in January 2018, President Nelson visited extensively with
Latter-day Saints and government and religious leaders on nearly every
continent. He traveled to 32 countries and U.S. territories.
He also spent significant time building bridges with leaders
of other faiths and groups and nations. Most notable was his visit with Pope
Francis at the Vatican in March 2019 and his relationship with the National
Association for the Advancement of Colored People (NAACP), a civil rights
organization in the United States.
“We had a most cordial, unforgettable experience,” President
Nelson said of his visit with the pope. “His Holiness, he was most gracious and
warm and welcoming. What a sweet, wonderful man he is, and how fortunate the
Catholic people are to have such a gracious, concerned, loving and capable
leader.”
In May 2018 the prophet joined NAACP leaders in a call for
greater civility and racial harmony. Then, in July 2019, NAACP leaders invited
President Nelson to speak at the organization’s annual convention in Detroit.
“We don’t have to be alike or look alike to have love for each other. We don’t
even have to agree with each other to love each other,” President Nelson said.
He gathered again with NAACP leaders in June 2021 to announce educational and
humanitarian initiatives related to their ongoing collaboration.
The prophet visited with leaders of many nations while
traveling in various countries. This included government officials from
Cambodia, Colombia, Indonesia, New Zealand, Peru, Samoa, Tonga, Vietnam and
others. He also welcomed many leaders to Temple Square, including a Vietnamese
delegation, the Cuban ambassador, and the leader of the Muslim World League.
The prophet bolstered these bridge-building efforts by
urging Latter-day Saints to be peacemakers who “build, lift, encourage,
persuade, and inspire — no matter how difficult the situation.”
“Brothers and sisters, we can literally change the world —
one person and one interaction at a time. How? By modeling how to manage honest
differences of opinion with mutual respect and dignified dialogue,” President
Nelson said. “If you are serious about helping to gather Israel and about
building relationships that will last throughout the eternities, now is the
time to lay aside bitterness. Now is the time to cease insisting that it is
your way or no way. Now is the time to stop doing things that make others walk
on eggshells for fear of upsetting you. Now is the time to bury your weapons of
war. If your verbal arsenal is filled with insults and accusations, now is the
time to put them away. You will arise as a spiritually strong man or woman of
Christ.”
While traveling with President Nelson in 2018 (a trip that
included a stop in Jerusalem, the city of peace), then-Elder Jeffrey R. Holland
of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles noted President Nelson’s global vision.
“He’s the prophet to the world, and he has that view,” Elder
Holland said. “He has that prophetic seership. We sustain him as a seer and a
revelator, and he is looking at the whole world.”
Many significant changes were introduced by President
Nelson. As was mentioned previously, each of these was designed to place
laser-like focus on Jesus Christ.
“President Nelson, I don’t know how many more ‘rushes’ we
can handle this weekend. Some of us have weak hearts. But as I think about it,
you can take care of that too. What a prophet!” —Elder Holland, April 2018
Under his leadership the prophet adjusted the way Saints
around the world minister to each other. He repeatedly stressed the importance
of the correct name of the Church. He shifted the emphasis of gospel
instruction to be centered in each home and supported by the Church. He
modified a policy allowing children of LGBT parents to be baptized. He adjusted
the faith’s temple recommend interview questions to help Church members more
deeply understand the purpose of temple worship. He introduced a new global youth
program for the Church’s children and teenagers. He announced a new witness
policy for live baptisms, proxy baptisms and live and proxy sealings. He
authorized a global policy for couples married civilly to be married
immediately in one of the faith’s temples. He reorganized and consolidated
priesthood quorums and organizations for adults and children. He introduced
various changes to missionary policies and procedures. He changed the Church’s
symbol to includes a portrayal of the resurrected, living Lord Jesus Christ.
And he read a new proclamation to the world about the Restoration of the
fulness of the gospel of Jesus Christ.
“To paraphrase Ralph Waldo Emerson, the most memorable
moments in life are those in which we feel the rush of revelation,” said
then-Elder Jeffrey R. Holland near the conclusion of the April 2018 general
conference, in which the prophet introduced several notable changes. “President
Nelson, I don’t know how many more ‘rushes’ we can handle this weekend. Some of
us have weak hearts. But as I think about it, you can take care of that too.
What a prophet!”
All these changes were made as President Nelson encouraged
Latter-day Saints to receive personal guidance from God just as he received
revelation for the Church. He and other leaders repeatedly said these changes
are part of the ongoing Restoration of the gospel of Jesus Christ.
A Master Teacher Who Touched Hearts
President Oaks referred to President Nelson as a master
teacher. “I’ve heard surgeons that he trained comment on how effective he was
at teaching them to be surgeons,” President Oaks said. “And I’ve seen him as
the master teacher teach the servants of the Lord in the same way.”
As a “beloved physician” President Nelson literally touched
the hearts of hundreds of patients suffering from physical ailments. As a
disciple of Christ, he healed hearts through word and deed.